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Working Remotely, Part 1

November 11, 2018 by Galia in lessons, working remotely

Working remotely has to be the number one hot topic that comes up over and over again on our trip. I’m working full-time, and Mike is working part-time, all remote. This is something that many people haven’t seen done yet, and we honestly didn’t even know how it would really work out ourselves, so I’m constantly surprised by the depths of people’s interest in this topic. Mike’s experience is similar to mine in a lot of ways but very different in others, so for now I’m just sticking to my personal experience. I wasn’t sure what people would be most interested in, so I’m breaking it up into multiple parts to focus on a few different aspects of running a law firm remotely.

Part I: The One Where I Talk About Myself

Before we get into the nitty gritty of actually running a law firm remotely, some backstory that might help:

I’m a lawyer, and have owned my own law firm for a little over five years now. I practice business law, which means I help small business owners protect their businesses and their families by creating customized business documents that limit their liability. (Plug!) We do a lot of business formations, consulting about independent contractors vs. employee classification, trademark registration, contracts, HR and employment policies, etc. Anything that comes up in the course of a business, other than going to court.

Before I started this firm, I spent a long and difficult year doing family law. I think I would have ended up working for myself eventually, anyway, but the combination of family law + that particular job made me learn a lot more quickly that a) I would only be truly happy with the kind of independence that is hard to find unless working for yourself, b) I don’t want to be bound to the courtroom anymore, and I ideally want to be able to work from anywhere or at least have more control over my hours and ability to travel, c) I want to practice a kind of law where everyone is on the same side and shares a concrete goal, and d) the legal field is far behind and someone needs to help move it forward, even if in small ways. Which, fast forward five years, is what brought me to where I am today. Namely, conducting client meetings in an RV at a truck stop, and networking on the phone while sitting on a bench at the National Mall in DC. Or, literally at the moment I write this, sitting on an airplane.

Before we started the trip, I had what I’d call about an 80% virtual law firm. A virtual law firm is one that doesn’t have a “real” office, and most services are conducted online. In order to both keep the overhead low and also give myself the flexibility I wanted, the law firm was set up using a coworking space as our headquarters. I’d go in a few times a week for client meetings and to get the mail. The rest was done from home or out and about. My employees all worked from home, but would occasionally come in to Oakland to join me for meetings, networking events, or our in-person seminars. While it completely worked to not have a “real” office, I still felt like I was spending most of my week just driving around the Bay Area and not being as productive (or calm) as I’d like to be.

The trip would put the virtual law firm to a true test. I’d be working remotely 100% of the time, changing locations, changing time zones, and still working full time. I’d see no clients and no contacts in person for a year or more.

Near the beginning of the trip, my employees all expressed in one way or another that they were worried. They thought the firm wouldn’t grow with me away, that they wouldn’t get the support from me that they needed. I was worried they might feel resentful, like I’m traipsing around the country while they’re doing all the hard work. None of us knew whether we’d still get clients, or whether people would demand to meet in person before hiring us. But, the irrationally optimistic entrepreneur that I am, I thought we could make it work. It was at least worth giving it a go. And secretly, my goal was not only to sustain, but to grow the business even more while I’m on the road.

Months into the trip, my employees all separately admitted to me that, to their relieved surprise, it’s actually been totally fine. Nothing’s changed. Everything’s working, and everything’s growing. At one point I even said in passing, “When I get back, we’ll do xyz…” and the response was, “Oh yeah… you’re coming back! I forgot!”  Nothing makes me feel more confident that this can work than my employees telling me they believe it. And, goal achieved -- we didn’t just sustain the business, we grew it substantially.

I can’t discuss working remotely without also acknowledging some of my many privileges, all of which I feel deep gratitude for on a daily basis:

First, I am very privileged to have a team that has fully embraced the sometimes maddeningly change-focused philosophy of my law firm. Seriously, they are all amazing. I know this would have been much more difficult with a team who wasn’t willing to jump in and take risks and grow and change with me.

Second, I am also incredibly privileged to have a job that I can do on the computer. For people who work with their hands, or who need to be present at their jobs for one reason or another, a trip like this would be much more difficult and maybe seem impossible. I know I gave myself a huge head start by picking a career that only needs internet.

And finally -- having a partner who’s also up for it! I try not to take this for granted. How lucky I am!

With the backstory in mind, the next installment will talk about how a virtual law firm actually works.

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Working in SF was pretty great, too…
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Working the night before we left
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First office, San Diego
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Christmas in Findlay
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Orlando with a view of the lake
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Look closely and you might be able to find Mike in his temporary office in Orlando
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Orlando: where I set up for video meetings
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Movie theater office in action
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Atlanta: there was often a cute baby outside that window next to me
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Atlanta backyard office
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An airport. Somewhere.
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On the porch in New Orleans
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Mike might be doing it wrong
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Our coworking space in Brooklyn
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Outdoor office at a campground outside of Boston
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Another airport office
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D.C. office (with hair-drying clippies in my hair)
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More RV office
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November 11, 2018 /Galia
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Photo by Curtis MacNewton on Unsplash

Photo by Curtis MacNewton on Unsplash

May, by the numbers

September 08, 2018 by Galia in on the road

Safe to say we officially hit the Chaos portion of our trip.

Here are some stats from the first three weeks after we left Atlanta:

  • Beginning April 30, we visited seven states in seven days…

  • And slept in different beds 9 days in a row.

  • In a period of two weeks, we slept in a total of 11 beds;

  • If you bump that up to three weeks, we slept in 14 beds.

  • We didn't sleep in the same bed more than twice for three weeks straight.

Here’s how it went. Hold on to your butts, it's a long one...

April 30: Atlanta → Savannah

Wake up in Atlanta, pack up, say goodbye and try not to cry. Drive to Savannah. Eat dinner at a place called Treylor Park (because, c’mon, it seemed required), eat fried banana pepper rings with ranch dressing, which was one of the best things I’ve ever eaten. Also, pb&j chicken wings.

Sleep in Savannah, Georgia.

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Useful reading at the Savannah RV park
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pb&j chicken wings, fried avocado
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fried pepper rings

May 1: Savannah → Charleston

Take a carriage tour around Savannah that is surprisingly disappointing, but ends up paying off because the retired couple we shared the carriage with was raving about Charleston. Get some of the best eggs I’ve ever eaten at Little Duck Cafe, and spontaneously decide to ditch Savannah early and drive to Charleston instead. Walk around, get dinner at Fleet Landing (hush puppies stuffed with crab and crawfish!).

Sleep in Charleston, South Carolina.

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Hello Charleston
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May 2: Charleston → Raleigh

Hire wedding planners! Feel a large weight lifted. Lunch at cute little French cafe, appropriately called G&M. This time, a really awesome carriage tour. Drive to Raleigh, where the RV park had an actual speed limit of 7.5 mph.

Sleep in Raleigh, North Carolina.

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May 3: Raleigh → Richmond

Visit Mike’s “Aunt” Mary Louise (who is actually his grandfather’s sister), who is 99 years old, and join her for lunch at her retirement home. Then drive to Richmond, while pondering life and the future.

Get surprisingly good Thai food in the suburbs. Pack up everything we’ll need for the next six weeks into three bags each.

Sleep in Richmond, Virginia.

May 4: Richmond → Baltimore

Drive the RV to a storage lot in Baltimore. Turns out our designated spot is right next to a building that’s being painted, so if we park there, we’ll get paint on the RV. Instead, we’re allowed to park on the front end of the lot, with direct visibility from the street (all the other vehicles being stored were hidden from view), and blocked only by a short chain link fence with no barbed wire. Leave the RV and hope it’s still there when we get back.

Stay in an airport hotel in Baltimore, Maryland, order room service, and veg.

May 5: Baltimore → St Louis → O’Fallon, IL

Fly into St Louis, have three and a half hours to: get off the plane, get our many bags from baggage claim, take a shuttle and rent a car, drive a half hour to our hotel, check in early, iron Mike’s suit, change our clothes, drive another half hour to Aviston, IL, for Mike’s friend, Jenni’s, wedding! Somehow make it in time.

Sleep in O’Fallon, Illinois.

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May 6: O’Fallon → St Louis

Run to Walmart to get a replacement suitcase because one of our large ones already just died. Breakfast at Egg & I. Drive to St Louis, get BBQ at Sugarfire, drive through Delmar Loop, see the arch.

Sleep in St Louis, Missouri.

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May 7: St Louis → Baltimore

Fly back to Baltimore, and Budget rental car does everything in their power to take as much money from us as possible. (Never again.) Stop at the RV to move it, and nobody appears to be living inside (win!).

First night sleeping in the same place two nights in a row! Visit Mike’s cousin, Rachel, and her husband, Jonathan. Walk around their neighborhood, Hampden, and get dinner at The Food Market (best fried pickles ever).

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May 8: Baltimore

Jonathan gave us a personalized history tour of Baltimore, which is basically our favorite thing to do in a new place (walk, look, and learn). The highlight for me was checking out the Peabody library, which I wanted to permanently move into. Dinner all together at Parts & Labor. Lots of walking and talking. Realize what a privilege and a pleasure it is that we get to do this. What other opportunity would we have had to spend so much time with these awesome people? The people you normally only see at weddings and the occasional Christmas gathering? We had a great time, and feel so lucky. Once again, our decision to take this trip is reaffirmed.

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"Whoever died from a rough ride? The whole damn system."

May 9: Baltimore → Silver Spring

Mike and I grab lunch with Rachel, then have to work. Didn’t have anywhere to do a client meeting, so Rachel’s friend let me come work at her house when she was gone, even though I’ve never met her! Bonus time hanging out with the dog, Charlie.

Say our goodbyes, and drive to Silver Springs, MD, outside of DC. Go downtown DC and meet up with an old family friend, Ruben, and his girlfriend, Kate. And again, what an opportunity to see people you never get to see! I’m also very grateful at the many good people -- strong people -- who work for the federal government right now, because I don’t think I’d have the patience (or optimism) to do it.

Sleep in Silver Springs, Maryland.

May 10: Silver Spring/DC

We spent the entire day walking around DC, and saw: the Capitol Building, the Supreme Court, the relative distances of all of the planets outside the Air and Space Museum, the Washington Monument, the World War II memorial, the WWI memorial gazebo (where I had to stop to take a networking call), the Martin Luther King Jr memorial (which was my favorite), the Lincoln memorial, the Vietnam memorial, the Korean War memorial, the White House (with accompanying motorcade, including some spectators who insisted that they’d seen Trump’s hair and red tie), the International Spy Museum, and the Portrait Gallery and attached art museum. I was surprised at how moved I was, seeing the memorials, remembering the history, reflecting on everything we’ve seen throughout America, and thinking about all the stuff that’s happened here.  In a time when it’s easy to lose hope, and easy to feel anxious about the future, this country’s history reminded me that times get really hard, and then something is forced to give, and then things can then become better than before. And I want to make the choice to believe MLK, that “right, temporarily defeated, is stronger than evil triumphant.”

Despite the feeling that things are hard or getting worse right now,  this is still a great country to live in. Most of us can wake up not having to fear our government, not having to worry about being murdered for our beliefs, or our religions, or our races. There is still progress to be made. But hopefully someday, none of us will have to worry.

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May 11: Silver Spring → New York City

Four hour drive to Brooklyn takes six hours. Meet up with Mike’s brother, Zac, and his wife, Jess, whom we’ll be staying with for a good chunk of our NY stay.

Mike fully and immediately embraces NYC driving, honking and yelling at people while exclaiming how fun it is to drive there.

My carry-on suitcase promptly dies, too. Luggage casualty #2. Always an adventure.

Return our rental car to a hilariously creepy spot in the deep underground corner of a hotel parking garage. We brought it in 45 minutes early; the Budget system wanted to charge us an extra $200 for bringing it in early (it kept trying to charge us the day rate instead of the lower weekly rate) so we had to wait around until 9p for it to charge us the original price, instead. (See? Never again.)

Get a really late dinner with Zac and Jess at Little Mo.

Sleep in Brooklyn, New York.

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Hello New York
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Goodbye suitcase

May 12: Brooklyn/Manhattan

Breakfast at Le Garage, and then we all take the train into Manhattan. Go to MOMA, which further reinforces my lack of understanding of art in general, and modern art in particular. Get hot dogs on the way out, and walk around a bit. I was surprised at the anxiety response I got while walking around Manhattan. There are just SO MANY PEOPLE, everything and everyone is constantly moving, the buildings are huge, the trains are crowded, you just get swept around the city inside currents of people, and there’s nowhere to duck out and just take a breath (at least, without standing in line, taking the train for an hour, or spending lots of money). It’s fun for a visit, but I don’t think I could live here happily. What I do love, though, is that every other person is speaking a different language. And the fashion! Definitely different from San Francisco, where the rich people just wear more expensive t-shirts and hoodies.

We got stuck in the rain on our way back to Brooklyn, but stopped at a pickle store which was entirely filled with barrels of pickled things. Each armed with a pickle, our spirits were lifted, and all was well again with the world. (Seriously, why aren’t pickle stores a thing everywhere?)

First, delicious Italian-style pizza at Santa Panza. Then we spent the rest of the night at home, playing games and watching Mike and Zac eat every-flavor jelly beans while Jess and I laughed at them when they accidentally ate a Dead Fish or Spoiled Milk flavor.

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Credit to Jess

May 13: NY → SF

And now I’m writing this on a plane to San Francisco! I’m headed back for a two-day business development workshop for work, and then Mike will join me for a few days.

We’ll spend just under a week here, mostly working and doing all the home-stuff that we can most easily do in SF, like doctor appointments and haircuts. And, to keep things as complicated (but as fun) as possible, we’ll of course be sleeping in three different places while we’re here! (Thanks, friends!)

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Newark airport had a tablet at every seat, to order food and drinks from!
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September 08, 2018 /Galia
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Atlanta: The Struggle With Time Continues

August 25, 2018 by Galia in atlanta

We spent the month of April with my brother, sister in law, and nephew in Atlanta, GA. We were already pretty close, but we don’t get to see each other often, so Mike and I were really excited to see them. Of course, it was an extra treat to get to hang out with my baby nephew. It’s really hard to bond with a kid when you only see them a couple of days a year, so that felt really special.

Our goals, on top of our normal goals (work, bond, spend as much time with people as possible), included helping with baby-care and helping around the house, bonding with baby as much as possible, and trying to let his mom sleep sometimes. The problem is, we still have to work.

So imagine, day one of the visit, sitting at the desk downstairs working, and hearing the clop, clop, clop of a toy rolling down the stairs towards you. Then another. Then another. And then the delightful giggle of a little boy who is apparently trying to entice you up the stairs by rolling toys down to the Galia-and-Mike maker. (Insert toy: out comes a Galia or a Mike! Like magic.)

Likewise, this was sometimes the view out of the window by my desk:

Needless to say, it is very difficult to keep working. So the choice is either: keep working and feel like you should be hanging out, or hang out and feel like you should be working. Every moment, every day, you have to choose. Work, people, sightsee, life stuff, bond. Work, people, sightsee, life stuff, bond. No matter what you choose, you feel like you’re never doing any of them enough. Work: my employees need me, my clients are waiting for things, I need to spend time building my business. People: the whole point of the trip is to spend time with our friends and family, this should be a priority. Sightsee: we’ve never been here before, I don’t want to go through it and not actually see anything. Life stuff: still gotta go grocery shopping, pay the bills, sleep, eat, and shower; not to mention just be alone sometime to stay sane (but how can I justify being alone when we’re supposed to be spending time with people?!). Bond: our relationship is the most important thing, and even great relationships require time and intention.

Every day is filled with balancing those priorities. If I spend time hanging out, I won’t have time to do that work project, so I won’t  be able to get to sleep at a normal hour. If I work, I won’t be able to go to the farmer’s market and spend time together. If I stay inside reading, I might regret not maximizing time with people, and how can I justify that when the point of the trip is to spend time? If we maximize time in X location, then we’ll only have a day to get to Y location, and we won’t be able to sightsee; but the point is to spend time with people, so shouldn’t we include that extra day? But we can’t leave on a Monday, because I’d have to take a day off of work for traveling; but if we leave Sunday, that’s a full weekend day of hanging out we’re missing.

I see now, more than ever, that life is truly made up of what you decide is worth your time. You cannot do everything, and you cannot ever give anything as much time as you want to. The best we can do is decide what’s important, and try to maximize time doing that thing (while balancing the others the best you can). A lot of the rest of it comes down to communicating and also just forgiving yourself when you feel like you’re not quite hitting the mark.

Atlanta was a blast. We had so much fun, and felt so comfortable there. We fell into a great routine by the end, where we mostly worked during the day, with bursts of hanging out and playing. At night we’d figure out family dinner, and my sister in law would come back out after putting the baby to bed, and we’d stay up talking until late. And weekends, we’d go adventuring. But, as always, the month flew by way too quickly. With people working, the hangout time gets distilled to nights and weekends, and your actual adventure days are surprisingly few when you look at it that way. So even our month was way too short, and we had to drive off too soon, with tears in our eyes, always wishing we could have spent more time.

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August 25, 2018 /Galia
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